"It's a marathon, not a sprint." Good advice to hear when you're struggling with sticking to a discipline or trying to push through a difficult task. It's even good advice for relationships. Usually, we humans give up too soon! And when we do, we usually regret it later. Or, sometimes, we stay too long, and…
As we approach the Manger in Bethlehem, we are so very familiar with the Story surrounding the Lord's birth. And sometimes that very familiarity gets in the way of actually dealing with the Universe-Shaking Event of God becoming Flesh for our salvation. It is no mistake that He first comes to us as a helpless…
Tribalism has become so unhealthy in our modern age that we are now making up "tribes" to belong to because we are so confused about who we are as a people. But that isn't anything new. Tribalism has been unhealthy since we started choosing sides and reducing our identity to either our genetic roots or…
Rick Godwin once said: "Shame is probably the hardest emotion to sit with, to express. People go out of their way -- people drink themselves to death, people will murder -- not to feel shame. It's that much of a kicker." Wow. It's probably very important to get the feelings of shame tamed and discerned…
Is being materially "rich" a blessing? Well, it certainly can be, but material wealth can reveal a deeper truth about what true riches really are! I've known materially wealthy people who were genuinely content and I've known materially poor people who were always discontented, and vice versa. Material wealth or poverty reveals us as we…
"Well, to be fair..." I cringed when I heard these words because I knew what followed was an attempt by the speaker to shut down the discussion. After all, everyone wants "to be fair," don't we? Ah, but what is "fair?"
Of course, we want to be "fair." It seems to be an ingrained and foundational…
Where does our desire, across all cultures, to prepare food and celebrate with family and friends? Why does every culture have focused etiquette about formal dinners and responding to invitations? We are hard-wired to be in community. And this flows from the fact that God created us and now invites us to return to serious…
Today is the Feastday of St. Spyridon, the Wonderworker, and I always love the common scripture passages the Church gives us during these commemorations of the heroes of our Faith. Mainly because I get to learn about the saint remembered and I get to revisit familiar scriptures in light of the life of the saint!…
It's always so fascinating to me to see the wisdom of the Orthodox Church year. Here we are approaching the birth of the Messiah, the God-Man, the Savior of the World, and today we celebrate the miraculous Conception of the Theotokos by St. Anna, her mother. Of course, you know this story. It is a…
Bookstores all across the country have hundreds of books in the "Business" sections talking about how to be a good leader. They have lists and lists of characteristics and behaviors that a "good" leader has or needs. And they sell well because most of us who are leaders really do want to be successful in…