"A man who has friends must himself be friendly, But there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother." (Proverbs 18:24) This bit of wisdom is absolutely necessary to embrace. But it is especially true for young people to learn this lesson early so they can mature into healthy adults. And the reason is…
Let's face it; we all have to deal with unpleasant realities. You know the situations I'm talking about: those moments in life when there is either a difficult confrontation that has to happen or a struggle with bureaucracy or just a difficult relationship that has to end or change. It's just not fun. It's scary.…
The temptation to try to weasel out of true compassion and true Christ-like living is so very common in our lives. We always run the risk of having our souls atrophy into hard-hearted souls. The only remedy for this spiritual sickness is the twin medicines of humility and attentiveness.
St. Paul says "Honor your father and mother, which is the first commandment with a promise" in Ephesians 1:1-3 and we even have prayers for people on their deathbeds asking God to forgive them if they have not honored their parents. It seems pretty clear in scriptures in both the Old and New Testaments that…
Prejudice is always the ugly counterfeit to true discernment and good judgment. But we humans all too often confuse these realities to our own detriment. As a man who has grown up in the American South, I can readily attest to the sickness of prejudice in society, in communities, and in my own heart.
By God’s…
"But, father, why is this happening to me?" It was a hard question to hear, mainly because I didn't have an answer. I was sitting across from this precious father as he told me about the medical diagnosis of his little girl. It wasn't good, and he didn't understand why God was allowing this to…
"Poor me! Are you enjoying your little pity party?" She had a pouting look on her face as she chided me for complaining about how some of my friends were treating me. It was a lesson I wouldn't soon forget. She was my single mom and she simply didn't have the time to allow her…
St. John of Damaskos says: "Without attentiveness and watchfulness of the intellect we cannot be saved and rescued from the devil, who walks about ‘like a roaring lion, seeking whom he may devour’"
Sounds pretty serious. And yet, the virtue of attentiveness is so very difficult and elusive. I guess it's so difficult because it is…
Orthodox Christianity is an eschatological religion! O, Mr. Fancypants with your big words! :-)
Ok, Orthodoxy is the Faith that keeps eternity in mind and the ultimate victory of Christ over all darkness. Is that better?
In fact, the reality that eternity is more real than these temporary events is seen in how we worship, how we…
St. Paul tells the Galatians the truth about being a serious follower of Jesus Christ. In doing this, St. Paul reveals the wisdom of the Faith to form us and shape us in how we choose to live. The truth is we all make choices, both big and small. But if we never examine ourselves…