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“Nobody told me there’d be days like these!” Well, that not exactly true. St. Paul did warn that in the last days perilous times will come: For men will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, unloving, unforgiving, slanderers, without self-control, brutal, despisers of good, traitors, headstrong, haughty, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God, having a form of godliness but denying its power.” (2 Timothy 3:1-5) Sound familiar?

Swirling around us nowadays are a multitude of opinions, teachings, marketing strategies, and gifted speakers all attempting to, in good old American entrepreneurial fashion, win “new customers” to their “style” of Christianity. And this is increasing every day! This is also the world our children are being raised in and this means they are going to be exposed to ideas and theologies very different from the Orthodox Christian faith. And they are already subject to the peer pressure that comes naturally as part of the growing up process.

So, what are we Orthodox Christian parents suppose to do?

Look at our Lesson today in Hebrews 13:7-16

Brethren, remember your leaders, those who spoke to you the word of God; consider the outcome of their lives, and imitate their faith. Jesus Christ is the same yesterday and today and forever. Do not be led away by diverse and strange teachings; for it is well that the heart be strengthened by grace, not by foods, which have not benefited their adherents. We have an altar from which those who serve the tent have no right to eat. For the bodies of those animals whose blood is brought into the sanctuary by the high priest as a sacrifice for sin are burned outside the camp. So Jesus also suffered outside the gate in order to sanctify the people through his own blood. Therefore let us go forth to him outside the camp and bear the abuse he endured. For here we have no lasting city, but we seek the city which is to come. Through him then let us continually offer up a sacrifice of praise to God, that is, the fruit of lips that acknowledge his name. Do not neglect to do good and to share what you have, for such sacrifices are pleasing to God.

As we said before about this passage; St. Paul is reaching out to a group of Christians who had converted from Judaism and were thinking of going back because of persecution, peer pressure, and problems. And he was trying to convince them that what they had in Christ was “better” than what they had left! By the way, the Book of Hebrews probably started out as a long homily or oration by St. Paul to this group because it “reads” different than all his other “Epistles” to different churches he founded.

But look at what Paul tells these folks. First, St. Paul reminds them of their communion: “Remember your leaders.” In the Orthodox faith, it is no accident that we look at our community, not as some civic organization, but as a family. Even our leaders are called “father.” This bond is not so easily dismissed if it is full and honest. I remember telling my parish family when I first arrived “I am grateful that the bishop has made me your priest, but I look forward to earning the place in the community as “father.”” So, if we want to arm our children to stay connected to the Faith, let’s make sure they are connected to the community as family and not just as a place of nostalgia, pizza parties, and “fun.” Give them the family of Faith!

Next, St. Paul tells these wavering Hebrews to find their strength in worship! We can face any persecution and doubt if we remain faithful to remember our focus on Christ! And the best way, the most perfect way, to maintain that focus is through our regular, faithful, and corporate (again, “family”) gathering to worship. When we are faithful to offer “the fruit of lips” in prayer together, in liturgy together, we instill in one another not just a mutual accountability, but a deepening awareness of the profound theology of our Faith. And the natural result of our prayer together, our regular worship is the strength for “good works.”

Today, as we face the “strange days” and strange teachings meant by the evil one to seduce us away from the fullness of the Faith, let’s remember our leaders and not forget to faithfully gather together to pray, and, in so doing, drive the solid foundation of Faith deep into our hearts so that we will have a sure foundation to share this eternal Faith with the next generation. If we are Orthodox on Purpose it will be more likely they will be too!

P.S. On the next Faith Encouraged LIVE, my dear friend and fellow priest Fr. Panayiotis Papageorgiou will join me to and we will discuss the theology and practice of Islam in the show entitled “Knowing Islam – an Orthodox Perspective.” That’s this Sunday night at 8 PM on


  • NonnyMouse
    Posted January 18, 2016 at 9:39 am

    but what if i came to the faith too late and my teenager refuses to accept it any longer… my 12 yo serves happily as an altar boy and loves it so he’s still “in” but my youngest and myself are the only orthodox in the family and experience much opposition from other immediate family members within the household… what am I to do when i came too late…left at the insistence of family, then realized after two years I couldn’t live without the Church can came back and in the process have ruined and lost my daughter by doing so, and putting my entire family in danger of shattering? #Hopeless #Despair (BTW, no, i won’t ever leave again, by God’s grace and strength…obedience can be painful, but disobedience is excruciating and never, ever worth it…ever…. no never…. Lord have mercy on me, chief of sinner!)

    • Post Author
      Fr. Barnabas Powell
      Posted January 18, 2016 at 9:45 am

      God’s grace and mercy is greater than all our mistakes combined. Prayer, patience, and trust coupled with an unshakable confidence that God loves these family members more than you ever will, will give you peace no matter what the circumstances. Good strength to you and your son, and prayers for your daughter and the rest of your family!

  • Darlynn
    Posted January 21, 2016 at 11:57 am

    Fr. Barnabas is right. I stayed away from the church for the very same family reasons. We had 4 teenagers. It was world war 4 at our house. It was a huge mistake for me to leave the church. When I came back to church after 20 yrs. God stood behind me took care of my family. Now no one crosses the line when it comes to my faith and on occasion attention with me. I am the only odd ball Orothodox Christian in our family. It’s all ok, God worked it out. I just wish I had totally trusted Him. It would have saved a lot of missery.

    • NonnyMouse
      Posted January 26, 2016 at 1:32 pm

      “I just wish I had totally trusted Him. It would have saved a lot of missery.” Oh i SO relate to this!!!!! <3 thank you for sharing your story, so similar in many ways to mine. God bless you and keep you and yours… will be praying for y'all from my lill corner of GA. <3 +

  • Harry
    Posted January 28, 2016 at 3:36 pm

    Pray people and me I know who have left orthodoxy I think sometimes I’m to blame because I should have been a better Christian , i go church confession pray and read a lot and experienced grace but if i bore the truth better they would have recognized Truth and not departed I sometimes wonder.

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