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Asking for help isn’t really my strong suit. Frankly, I hate doing it. And I hate doing it not because of pride or ego, but because of fear. I’m afraid of appearing weak. I’m afraid of being vulnerable. And yet, most of the times in my life where I’ve finally overcome my fear and asked for help, I was glad I did, even when the other person said ‘No!” There’s something truly liberating about knowing you aren’t by yourself when you’re in trouble! I need my friends.

Because it’s really true. I really do “get by with a little help from my friends!” This is an old idea that is rooted in creation itself. We humans were meant for communion. You’ve heard me say this a thousand times! And it’s because we are created in God’s image and He knows Himself as Persons in Communion.

Just look at our Lesson today from Acts 18:22-28:

IN THOSE DAYS, when Paul had landed at Caesarea, he went up and greeted the church, and then went down to Antioch. After spending some time there he departed and went from place to place through the region of Galatia and Phrygia, strengthening all the disciples. Now a Jew named Apollos, a native of Alexandria, came to Ephesos. He was an eloquent man, well versed in the scriptures. He had been instructed in the way of the Lord; and being fervent in the spirit, he spoke and taught accurately the things concerning Jesus, though he knew only the baptism of John. He began to speak boldly in the synagogue; but when Priscilla and Aquila heard him, they took him and expounded to him the way of God more accurately. And when he wished to cross to Achaia, the brethren encouraged him, and wrote to the disciples to receive him. When he arrived, he greatly helped those who through grace had believed, for he powerfully confuted the Jews in public, showing by the scriptures that the Christ was Jesus.

It’s a great story. St. Apollos was a very gifted teacher and speaker and he was a zealous preacher for the wisdom of God revealed by St. John the Baptist and his message of repentance. St. Apollos had been instructed in the “ways of the Lord” up to John’s message and ministry, but he didn’t have the whole story, and that was a problem! (by the way, it always is!)

So here comes Priscilla and Aquila, as wife and husband team who were faithful Christians and had “the rest of the story!” They fill Apollos in on the Incarnation and the message of Jesus, His life, death, and resurrection, and Apollos, having been instructed in “the way of God more accurately” became a powerful teacher and leader of the Faith! He eventually became bishop in the city of Corinth, but that’s another story.

The truth is none of us will ever be healthy Christians by ourselves.  “Lone Ranger” Christianity is notoriously dangerous! We need the wisdom and even the conflict of rubbing shoulders with one another, learning from one another, and even experiencing conflict together if we are ever going to be healthy people who know ourselves well and who are humble enough to be students as well as teachers. This wisdom of community, of relationships means we do ourselves spiritual, emotional, and even physical harm, when we think we can “go it alone.” We were meant to experience the Life of God, the Faith, the whole of creation as connected and reachable persons.

Today, where are you cut off from others? Where are you trying to “do it by myself?” How’s that working out for you? It simply is no mistake that the center of our worship as Orthodox is the Eucharist, Communion. We were meant to press out this very daily faith in the midst of the hard work of communion. We are suppose to not only do this hard work, but not give up on this hard work when it gets really hard! It’s in staying faithful to communion, to community, that makes me able to love others as God loves them. Community sets me free to finally be my true self. In fact, I will never truly know myself by myself! So, I really do “get by with a little help from my friends!” Ok, maybe a lot of help, especially since the goal is to be Orthodox on Purpose!

P.S. The First Faith Encouraged LIVE show of 2018 is this Sunday at 8 PM! I hope to hear from all my friends because I truly need you! That’s Sunday at 8 PM on

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  • Craig Mouldey
    Posted January 13, 2018 at 12:02 pm

    I was a ‘lone ranger’ for a long time, and then I found God’s ancient church. I was baptized Dec. 16, just passed. My greatest fear has now seemingly come to pass. I live in a rural setting, and it is a long journey to the parish I attend. Not having regular work, I can’t afford the drive often. I’ve now become isolated. It is worse now than before I was baptized. Now I have something to miss: my family in the faith. I feel like I’ve gone from the baptismal tank, directly into the fire.

  • Suzie
    Posted January 18, 2018 at 5:08 pm

    Beloved Brother Craig,
    You are in our prayers for strength and peace with your current situation, and new possibilities that could allow you to live closer to your parish and work opportunities. It too deeply miss my parish family when I cannot attend. Perhaps on those days when you cannot make it in town, you can listen to the live broadcast of Divine Liturgy on On the main page of you’ll see an image about the broadcast. Click on it and it says this: The Divine Liturgy streams live from Christ the Savior Church (OCA) in Chicago every Sunday morning at 9:30 AM Central time on the Talk station. You will miss the people of your parish, but you will be worshipping in kairos time with people all over the world and all of heaven. Something I did when I was transitioning to the Orthodox Church was listen to a recording of Divine Liturgy and worship at home.
    May the Holy Trinity keep you now and always and until the ages of ages. AMEN.

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